Monday 22 August 2011

#winning

Ok so I am very much behind on posting here, but I'm not doing much shopping....kind of a Catch22 when you have a blog about saving money when shopping. You shop and have something to write about....you have no money for shopping and therefore have nothing to write about!

Since my last blog I've been doing well. I've made 1 personal purchase of a t-shirt. This purchase was a celebratory purchase for passing my final driving exit exam and officially becoming the first driver in my family.....at 31 years of age.

I've been doing a lot better with sticking to my weekly allowance, and am getting better at not taking out more money when I run out. I've also been losing weight which I think goes hand in hand with spendig less of my weekly because I usually spend it on junk.

Groceries are doing well. We have a good rythmn of making purchases at No Frills and checking the fliers before we make our list. I sometimes go to Kensington Market as well.

I haven't hit China town really. I know I can get cheaper produce there, but from past expirences I wonder about the quality of produce I get there. I want to make sure I'm not saving a couple of bucks, but wasting the food later. We used to shop at a little market by one of our previous apartments and as much as I loved the savings gained there...it seemed like the food was always bad without a couple of days.

That's really it for food shopping. I have heard of one grocery store in Regent Park (in one of the new builds), which is a divison of Sobey's having amazing deals. I think they price per the neighbourhood average costs of living. So there's somewhere to check out as well.

For clothing shopping, if you love designer clothing but hate the price, Winners is totally the place to go, but more than that the Winners at Gerrard Square I would say is *the* place to go. That place is HUGE and EMPTY (of people). The selection there was by far the greatest that I've seen so far of any Winners location I've been too.

If you love amazing shoes but can't afford to drop obsene amounts of money on them, I suggest looking into layaway. Layaway is no longer your Mother's Department store policy. Fluevog, probably my most favourite of shoe stores (though I only currently own 2 pairs) has a layaway program. So what's even better is they have some great sales (my 2 pairs I got for $60 total a couple of years ago)....so when you see a pair of shoes on sale that you must have, but don't have immediate capital to purchase....layaway them. This way you don't go broke up front and can ammortize the cost over a period of time.

Trust me...there are a pair of boots there right now that is making me test out how much of my weekly I can save a week....so far...not enough.

There is a fluevog location on Queen Street. Go and check them out, the staff there are amazing.

Also, keep your eye out in Spring 2012. Body Blitz is opening a new location on King Street, close to the Distillery District. Body Blitz is a women's only spa. For a small price (really it's like $50), you can lounge in a salt water heated pool, cool in the cold water dip, detox in the aromatherapy steam room, sweat it out in the infrared sauna and then expirence the tingly sensation of the green tea dip.

I've already informed my sister of a date trip one day in spring. I expect to start in the distillery for a light bite to eat. Go to the spa. Walk form the spa to Merchants of Green Coffee, and then find a nice place on Queen for dinner to end it off. Sounds like I have something fun to anticipate for Spring!

Adios.

Thursday 28 July 2011

Feeling Full of Fail

Ok so I feel a bit like a failure.

Not for saving money on groceries. No, our July bill averaged $130 which is $120 less than it was last year. So when it comes to shopping cheap for food I think I'm winning - those numbers even include pharmacy items.

Where I fail is spending everywhere else. I mean we've cut the internet bill, and the TV bill. Our heating isn't so much as we've worked hard over the years to insulate and repair the building envelope.

But....if I am going to admit it, I'm a spendaholic. If I don't want to emotionally eat, then I emotionally spend.

My Husband and I have a pact. I don't do money at home as I do it at work, and he doesn't answer the phones at home because he does it at work....and it works for us.

Except I become oblivious to where we are with money, and I am doing most of the spending. If he says it's ok, I assume it's because he's checked the budget.

Well for the last 2 months....neither of us have been keeping an eye on the budget...and we may have gone a little over.

Now, a couple of the items were medical tests that aren't covered by OHIP, but we also went all out in updating the backyard so we would actually spend time out there....and it worked really. We find ourselves (him more than me, but I have allergies) outside working on models or suntanning and it's been great.

But, this over expenditure means that we cannot do the renovations we had planned. It means that we have to cut down on all shopping, and there is pretty much no entertainment from here on out.

But when brings to real home to me, is that my spending (going to be honest...I bought 3 pairs of shoes in 2 weeks...granted 2 were from Payless and 1 from Winners...but still, it's mostly my over spending) has potentially cost us to hold off on another treatment. This is the only post I am going to mention this in as I don't want to......I guess define myself by it, but we are doing fertility treatments. Up until now our budget has had it so that we have been able to do so without going into debt. But at the same time we weren't doing anything "fun". So after being married for 5 years we finally went on our honeymoon in March. We did an treatment in May and it didn't work. Initially we may have been able to do another by year end...but my spending means that if we want to do one and remain out of debt for it...we're looking at end of next year....possibly sooner. It depends on how well we do over the next few months.

I thought about leaving my cards at home so I wouldn't be tempted, but that doesn't work as I do grocery shopping on the way home some nights, and I should keep a credit card in case of emergencies. I've been very stern with myself in my head...but I think it will take time to get over some of my spending habits.

I decided today that I will use this handy coinpurse my sister got me in the shape of a frog head. If I go out at lunch (which is when most of my spending happens), I will put exactly X amount for lunch only in the coinpurse, and leave everything else behind (keeping in mind we give eachother an allowance each week...my overspending is above and beyond that money).

From now on I am going to really question whether I really need or just want...any item. This afternoon I was thinking about how great it would be to lay in bed with a down comforter all snuggled with cool fall air. Then I thought..oh we should get a cover for our comforter, and I started to think about what colour we should get and where I could get one...without even realizing what I was doing. I finally had to shake myself and scold myself for thinking of something so trivial. Something that I really don't need and shouldn't be thinking about buying.

So here I am writing a blog about saving money, when I am over spending it. I feel like that chick from the Shopoholics series, except I only have the one credit card and very little to no debt...and I want to keep it that way!

I thought maybe I could think of some ways to make money on the side. I'm not creative really...I'm not good enough at any craft to sell anything. I'm too busy with work and school to think about doing anything part-time and my Husband wouldn't let me because it's not like we are broke...we are just needing to tighten the purse strings.

So the next few months are going to be a test of retraint for me. I am really going to do my best not to spend anything unless a) it's totally necessary or b) I've consulted with my Husband and the money is there to be spent.

It's going to be hard. It really is...all the Tokidoki stuff I would like...the Hello Kitty Doc Martens...going out to movies with my Husband or out to dinner, getting my hair done....lots of stuff I need to put out of my head.

But I will remain strong. I can do this....and I feel by writing it down here will help. It just gives me the added boost of confidence.

So. Who wants to go out for coffee? Just kidding.

Monday 11 July 2011

Blogger you are tormenting me.

Trying to reply to epi-lj....not working so I am just going to post my reply here...because I can...because it's my blog.

So here....lol

Epi, sorry I took so long to reply.
Yeah we watch netflix for the TV shows. Lots of BBC on there which has been awesome. It is a lot cheaper using it currently for us then it is to do pay-per-view. We really hope by looking into getting satillite soon we can eliminate the TV and still get some channels with some shows we like to watch.
I also have no problem with torrents, but that messes with your internet bill (though not with tekksavvy as we have their unlimited plan, and our downloads since moving have been amazingly fast).
Odd it won't let me reply as me...
Thanks for replying!

Pooork

It's amusing to me this whole buying bulk concept. I mean yes it's simple, but man do some people take it to extremes.

I was shopping at No Frills this weekend and they had this half back pork sirloin on sale. I got this HUGE hunk of meat for $11. I noticed that the freezer has a big yellow sign stating 8 per family. I just stared at it for a second and then back at the meat in my hand. I tried to picture taking home 8 of these things. It's an assload of meat.

Ok perhaps if I had a large family, or was having a big party, I might take 8 of them home. The same sign was also on toilet paper that was on sale (and cleaned out might I add. 30 rolls (extra rolls so it was really 60) for $8.99....now we still have some left from the last sale so I didn't grab any...not that there was any to grab...but still  I pictured someone taking 8 of these suckers home. Are they preparing for the apocolipse??? Did they anticipate a lot of Mexican food in their future (no offence, I myself like a mean taco).

I have heard of people with their storage cellars filled with enough product to last them months. I started this blog in April and we are still working through a lot of the stuff we stocked up on. But I mean there is a limit.

I took that hunk of meat home and I looked it up on the internet to see how you cook it (again not big pork eaters in my house). Turns out it's just like a steak. So my Husband sharpened his knives and started cutting.

...and cutting....and cutting.....17 steaks. 17! And some of them we both agree are too big and could be cut in half. So lets assume someone bought 8 of these packages and cut them up into steaks...that's 136 steaks!!!!!!!!!! 136!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That's a lot of pork. I feel porky just thinking about it all.

We've slid back a bit into our old routine (ok I have), and our bills have been going up a touch. I feel like such a failure. But to be honest coupon cutting was exhausting. I mean I can still just order the coupons and have them sent, but keeping track of what's what, which expires when and limits...it's nuts. And while coupon swapping is a great idea, it just takes up sooo much effort. Perhaps I am lazy...but I have a finance course to be working above and beyond my everyday job, but house work and upgrades....I just don't have the time.

I will get back on the boat again. Maybe I just need to take it back to basics, slow down a touch...not go too big too fast like I was doing. I am still checking sales (wicked sale of berries at No Frills this week too), and trying to get more bang for my buck, but I really could be doing more.

With medical treatments on hold, and the need to save up money so we can try again, I have great incentive to save up. I just need to get over my inner child who whines about having to go to more than one grocery store at a time.

Anyway rant over...happy shopping!

Saturday 25 June 2011

So it's been awhile

I've missed you all. But life got in the way. I did a medical procedure...it didn't work...but there is always next time. Just means more opportunities to find ways to save money.

So I've done a lot of talking about saving money on groceries in Toronto, let me now venture into another area...media.

Up until recently we were paying well over $200 a month for cable and internet. INSANE. We had all the fancy channels, the movie networks....we were doing a lot of downloading on our computers (yay itunes) etc etc....

We'd done a lot of complaining about the costs and how it's too much, but we never did anything about it until recently.

A month back we switched our internet to Tekksavvy which allowed us more speed, less clogging of our computers and smoother game play all at the same time. The price was a real savings (we were spending aournd $100 before, now we are about $50) as well. It also uses our Rogers line so we only had to switch our modem. YAY!

We also got rid of all the movie networks, HBO and the like which was $20+ a month and switched to Netflicks. Netflicks is like $8 a month and can work through your xbox, ps3 or you can purchase a system that will allow  you to use it. Currently the selection isn't all that and a bag of apples, but that is due to licensing issues with Rogers not wanting to give them up. But we hope soon they will offer more selection, even still there is a lot of different flicks. OMG the BBC selection, wicked.

For our everyday TV viewing we have stuck with our regular package, but are considering on switching to using bunny ears. Only now you can put a dish on your roof to transmit the signal. If you don't know already, the closer you live to the CN Tower the more channels, and quailty of channels, you will recieve and for free! How can you beat that! Now this is mostly for casual watchers. But that's why you have your tekksavvy internet....lots of channels are starting to put full shows available on their website. So go view them there...might be a day after airing, but who cares!

So there you have it, some simple and easy ways to save more money at home! Enjoy!

Saturday 21 May 2011

Tis the season for Farmer's Markets

Ahhhh summer. I love it. Everything is green and ripe and just.....fresh.

One of the things I love about this season is all the farmers markets in the city.

Nothing but fresh produce grown locally, hopefully organically, and readily available.

The best way to save the most money here is to shop for items in season. You will be getting the freshest items that way. It's great to support local farmers. But also note that like grocery stores, depending on the area that the market is happening, the price will also adjust. Well that's my expirence as it were.

I've also noticed that there are a lot of booths with items that are not necessarily local, they just have someone who will sell the product locally.

When going to the farmers market, talk to the people beind the booth. Take a moment to learn about their farm, where they are located and what their practises are with growing food. Appreciate what these people do to get the food to your table.

http://tfmn.ca/ has a list of the different farmers markets in the city.

I have been to the one by City Hall downtown which I find tends to be a bit pricey, and sometimes less farmers, more artists. I'm not saying that, that is a bad thing...just be prepared to maybe not find what it is you want.

I've also been to the one at Metro Hall. This one has a honey vendor there every year. If you ask him if his honey is organic be prepared for an interesting lesson. He will tell you how no real honey is "organic" and I know some of you might be rolling your eyes, but he has a point. He says that he does not use any pesticides or chemicals on the hives, but he cannot say for sure that his bees have not travelled to a neighbouring farm or home which has used pesticides. Point taken. But that he does not use pesticides won me over, even if I don't know what those bees have been up to.

There is a flower booth there every year, and I would say probably only 4 or 5 farmers, and the prices don't vary too much but some items do so it's good to walk around. There is another booth that carries some of the most yummy and interesting jams, and the best tarts ever. Seriously if you ever want to treat me to something  yummy, I'll take some tarts please...the ones with the chocolate.
Beside that both will be their truck and they sell some fresh cut flowers there. Across are 2 vendors. One selling breads (which I have never bought from before), the other selling meats (again I find them pricey and haven't tred them yet). There is seating and bands playing at lunch.

Be aware of a couple of things though. This market is in the heart of a bunch of commercial buildings, and one whole area is just restaurants selling quick and easy fare for lunch. So long line-ups and very busy during lunch.

If you are there and are hot hot hot, try out the lemonade shack in the back. It's a little booth that sells fresh made lemonades and some curry fare. Very very yummy.

Another farmers market I go to and enjoy a lot is the East Lynns Park market. It happens on Thursdays and they block off one end of Woodmount for the people to walk around and for the trucks of the farmers. I've had great bread there (zuccini bread yummm), awesome veggies and you really get close to the community. It's small, but there are still about 7 or 8 vendors.

Now if you have a car, I would suggest making a day trip outside of Toronto.Visit farms that allow the public to come to directly to buy products. Walk around, check it out. A lot of blood, sweat and tears goes into having a farm and show the farmer that you really appreciate it. It's a great outing for children as well.

So happy shopping. If you have a favourite market that you like to go to in Toronto, tell me I always like to check out new places.

Monday 16 May 2011

I'm still here!!!

I've been away for awhile. Been doing some medical stuff behind the scenes and it's had me feelin' icky.

But I haven't forgotten!

We spent all of $22 last week on groceries. How...I'm not sure. I know we've worked hard on building up a stock pile of stuff when it's on sale, so that's helped.

But we have ordered which we've spent out of our allowances which doesn't get counted in the grocery bill...cheating? Not sure.

I hope to have a longer post with some more tips soon...I have a few other things up my sleeve, and I might actually make my first Costco trip....scary.

Take care people!

Sunday 1 May 2011

DRUM ROLL PLEASE!

So my first month of saving is complete.

My Husband ran all the numbers and checked and re-checked.

At the end of our first month on this journey, including cab rides from the grocery store, take out and pharmacy items...we saved.....

30% of what we would have spent on our monthly grocery bill!

Now there is still much saving to do. This is just the beginning.

I went to my first coupon swap meet. It was a lot of fun. There was a half dozen of us, and if you had posted the coupons you were looking for, people passed envelopes with goodies already picked out. Otherwise we just sat chatting, passing around all our extra coupons for everyone else to pick from, and picking from others stashes. I came out with a $25 card for Sears which I used for pillows...that was awesome.

I have a TON of coupons for different eczema lotions and skin care...which is great...I just hope they come on sale between now and when the coupon expires so I can save more. It's expensive stuff.

I did my weekend check of all the fliers this morning. I did a late grocery shopping and was armed with coupons and fliers. I think I mentioned this before, but if I haven't, No Frills price matches. So they are cheaper on a lot of things, but it's always good to check fliers for other places that have items you want on sale.

For instance, my Husband and I were saying that to cut down on any take-out we do, we should stock some frozen pizza's in the new freezer. Well wouldn't you know, Fresh Co. had McCain's premium pizza on sale for $2.99! It's like anywhere from $4+ savings.

I went to grab some and the guy that worked at the No Frills pointed out that their pizza that was on sale for $4 was in the freezer. I was like...thanks..and kept getting the premium pizzas. When I got to the cashier I gave her the flier and she called the floor manager to confirm it was good...and less than 5 minutes later, I walked out with 5 pizza for only $2.99 a piece. Pretty sweet. Great if you are a student.

This weekend I am thinking of making another trip to Kensington. I'm not 100% sold as yet.

Next up: I'm going to start doing some (not a lot) stock piling. Just buying things (we need and will use) in bulk when they are cheaper. The cost is large at first, but pays off in the long run. We'll see how that goes. But first: I go in for minor dental surgery tomorrow...so I might have to be drinking nothing but liquids for the week.

Monday 25 April 2011

Coffee Coffee Buzz Buzz!!

Years ago before going to a movie at the Scotiabank Theatre, my sister and I stopped off at Ben and Jerrys on Queen. We each got a Coffee Coffee Buzz Buzz milkshake. My Husband regrets those milkshakes to this day.

During the movie the two of us were sitting together and we chatted and giggled throughout the whole thing. My Husband now insists that we do not sit together during movies. We still manage to most of the time, and we still giggle...but not as much. Too bad that B&J's closed.

I once knew someone (who will remain nameless as I haven't asked if I could name them here), who gave up coffee for lent one year. They were on a trip and were listening to a scuba instructor tell them everything they needed to know before going in the water. Said instructor was waving around their coffee cup as they spoke, and my friend in their coffee deprived haze, thought the instructor was offering them their coffee. Lucky they were stopped from grabbing it out of the intructors hands just in time. But it just goes to show you how much of a hold coffee can have on a person.

As you can probably tell, I love coffee. I think it almost goes past love....it's a passion. I've had coffee brought back from Brazil and from Trinadad. I had at one point made it my mission to try every flavour of coffee Kicking Horse made (still not completed). It's just amazing and it's more than the drink...I love the smell, the sound of the fresh brew of the pot. I love the oils that make the beans so shiney.....ok I think you get it.

So when we first started on this mission, one of the first matters I needed to take care of was finding cheaper coffee that was up to my standards. I wanted to try to stay with fair-trade and organic. Both are important to me. It's super hard to do it and save money. We were spending $16 a week on 1lb of coffee. It's insane.

On the Toronto Livejournal boards several people pointed me to Merchants of Green Coffee http://www.merchantsofgreencoffee.com/ . I was told it was by far the best coffee there is. I had actually been made aware of the existance of this place a couple of weeks prior, on facebook but forgot about it shortly afterwards.

So my sister who is as coffee obsessed as I am, went on an adventure. We were going to the Distillery District (her first time), and then Merchants.

The weather was horrid. It rained and rained, but we were determined. We decided to go to Merchants first and it wasn't as hard to find as I thought it would be. We opened the door and were welcomed, not by an overwhelming smell of coffee that I expected, but the smell of well aged wood...it smelled like a cotage to me. It had the warmth of one as well. Rustic wooden tables and chairs, mixed with big comfy couchs and bookshelves filled with books from person libraries of the people who work there. I took pictures with my blackberry of the place, but I lost my cable (reason why this post took me so long toblog...I've been looking for it), but I will update it later.

Now you probably want to know about the coffee. Our first round was a simple latte. It was smooth and not too heavy. I wasn't left with a bitterness that I expected. At $4 a cup it was good. Next we got a pot of coffee brought to our table. It was an Ethiopian coffee, and my sister took a sip of it black, which we never do both preferring it with cream and sugar. With the Ethiopian coffee though it wasn't needed. It was smooth with a light sweetness to it that made it really easy to drink black. And so we enjoyed it black. Less calories, less milk use and sugar use...it was great.

Now to cost. Overall the coffee is on par, if a little cheaper that Kicking Horse, so not a real savings per say. However, and this is a BIG however; they have a deal where you buy 30 pounds of coffee for $300 (yo don't get all the coffee at once obviously)...$10 a pound is $6 cheaper than what we were paying...AMAZING! Only caveat: you are buying it green. Which means you need to roast it yourself. They provide roasters there (I think they said one is included in the $300 purchase), and offer lessons on how to roast your own coffee so it's still a great deal.

We won't be taking up the deal right now, because to be honest we can't afford to drop $300 on coffee right now. But once we are I think it would be great. You are still buying organic, still fair trade, cheaper than most coffees, you control your own roast, and your house will smell like coffee (total upside for me).

I really urge you to check out their shop and their coffee if you, like me, prefer organic and fair trade coffee...heck if you are a coffee lover you seriously should check it out, the coffee is amazing. Check off on your coffee bucket list.

As for last weeks shopping: $270....... I KNOW RIGHT!!!! Honestly, it was $98 and then we had easter costs....and things kinda snowballed. But we are back on track. At somepoint I will ask my Husband if I can post his chart. He has been listing out everything I buy at the individual stores and letting me know who sells specific items we get regularily, for cheaer prices. It's very handy.

Next up: I'll tell you how the swap goes.

Sunday 17 April 2011

Coupon Wars!

RAWWWWWWRRRRRRRR


Can you feel the anger?

Well ok I'm not angry now, but I was appaled and pretty damn well pissed off the other day.

I went shopping at Loblaws (Broadview and Danforth - I've been told I should be more specific of where I am shopping), I had some pretty sweet coupons for Ziplock products and thought that I am going to use them while they have them on sale.

I pulled out my coupons while in the aisle and checked them to be sure they would be ok.

I grabbed my products and happily moved to the cashier thinking about how I am going to tell my exciting save to my Huband...he'd probably have just laughed at me.

Well I get to cash I put all my coupons on my items (I originally went for buns and there were coupons there for them right there), and waiting. The cashier took my coupons, which were printed directly from the manufacturer on my printer. She looked at them and sighed and kept looking at me, then them.

She then had the nerve! The nerve! To ask me for the orginial coupons. I just stood there completely embarassed. I was like ummmm those are original, I got them from their website legitimately.

She then rolled her eyes at me!!! I felt my cheeks go red. I felt my blood boil and I tell you, in took all my will not to be all "Excuse me! Do you think I'm lying? Bring me a computer with internet and I will show you exactly where I got these from. It's one thing for you to doubt me, because you probably get fakes. But you do not show me disrespect in front of a whole bunch of strangers." But I held my calm.

She found a reason not to use the second coupon and I should have fought it but I was like whatever, just ring up my stuff and let me go.

Ugh! Drama with coupons! Jez!

In other news, last week we managed to spend a total of $80!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Damn! I am so proud that I was able to cut down my bills by so much in just the first month!

Today however, I spent $96 at the No Frills on Coxwell. The one on Carlaw is HUGE and has a greater selection including food of the world. I might have to go back there. The one at Coxwell was small, sold out of everything I wanted and too crowded for me.

The $96 was made up of laundry detergents. I got two because I needed one for whites. My Husband bought some white shirts for our trip in March and well....white and sweat don't mix. Trying to bring them back, but doubt I will be able to. I also got some chocolates as we are being smart about waste of food, and any bananas we aren't using, I am making banana bread with. It's a nice snack, takes like 15 minutes to prep and mix. Easy. Yummy. Just how I like it.

It's been suggested that I try going to Dollarama for canned food. We don't eat much in the way of canned food. Canned tomatos, yes, canned beans...in the winter sure.

I've also said to try China town. I might and probably will, but I wonder how I can save more there than I did at Kensington....but I do like adventures.

Well I hope you all are doing well, and are finding use of my blog!

Talk to you later.

(Next up, perhaps something to do with gardening, and a trip to an AMAZING local coffee shop).

Friday 15 April 2011

Swap Meet

So I am going to my first ever coupon swap meet on the 27th. A bunch of girls/guys get together and swap coupons they don't use with ones they need.

I'm horribly shy, but am hoping that this action will help me get over that.

This week has been surprising. I am used to making multipul trips on the way home to get groceries. Since our journey started a few short weeks ago, I've noticed those trips have lessened.

There was my Kensington shopping Saturday, No Frills on Monday and one stop Wednesday to Valu-mart.

I've gone through this weeks fliers. I've decided I can't travel from one store to the next to just save a couple of bucks.

I don't mind going to Kensington as I work downtown. I don't mind going to No Frills even. But I don't want to go here, there and everywhere.

No Frills price matches. I mean they claim to be the cheapest there is. I'm just wondering how mean/bitchy/annoying of a person I would be if I took all those fliers with me shopping. If anything is on sale at X place and it's something we want, I'll get it and give them the flier at cash out and give them my coupons. It'll save us money, and they have that policy for a reason right?

I've always hated that person who held up the line. I've groaned and whimpered 'cause I just want to go home. But here I am contemplating being that person

Very soon local farmers markets will be opening all over the city. It'll be nice to go to them, but you have to be careful. I love supporting local business', but depending on which market you go to, the prices can be fairly steep.

I'll let you know once my Husband has done the tally, how much we have spent this week. Maybe I should do a tally on one side of the page showing how much we spent vs, how much we would have spent that month if we followed old patterns.

It's something to think about.

Wednesday 13 April 2011

Free......need I say more?

Ok so you want to know how to score free stuff. I'm not talking about the 5 finger discount, or coupons (though I will update on some coupon stuff after), I'm talking honest to God free stuff.

It's easy.

Compliment your favourite companies.

Seriously.

For instance:

When my Husband and I were just starting to live together, he was in school and I was supporting the two of us on a tiny income, I visited a toy store on Mount Pleasent. In this toy store they had these stuffed fantasy dolls...wizards, knights and fairies. I love fairies. I know who doesn't! Well these stuffed fairies also had mounts including a stuffed frog (I also happen to love frogs and have a tattoo of one).

Now I couldn't afford to buy both the fairy and the mount, so I figured I would buy the fairy and come back another day for the mount. I took the toy home and my Husband rolled his eyes at me and laughed.

Months passed by and I returned to the store for the mount, only it wasn't there anymore. I asked the Manager when they would be getting more in, and they said never as the item was discontinued. Disheartened, I thought I will e-mail the company and find out who else in Toronto sold the toys and maybe someone will have one left.

In my e-mail I let them know of my quest (come on it's a fantasty toy, of course there is a quest) to purchase this toy, and asked very nicely if they could direct me to some toy company in Toronto with them.

A week later, while sitting at my desk at work, I recieved a package. Oddly I wasn't expecting anything. I opened it up and there it was. My frog mount. Nestled in some tissue paper with a little card. The company thanked me for my kind words and wanted me to have the toy.

It started something in me. I felt a little evil. Seriously...being honest and kind gets me free stuff?

So when my Husband and I were getting married, I e-mailed Lays about what Ketchup chips meant to us and how they were a part of our relationship (to this day friends bring ketchup chips to our parties, and say that Ketchup chips means we love eachother - I won't go into that whole story)...well Lays e-mailed me back and asked if they could send us coupons and free stuff! Sure!

I went to Body Blitz, a women's spa in Toronto and I e-mailed them after to let them know how much their spa relaxed me, and how important that was as I have severe stress issues and skin problems. They posted my letter, spelling and grammar mistakes included, to their website and asked if they could give me some free treatments as thank you! Sure!

I let my favourite coffee company know how much I adore their coffee and how my Husband and I were trying them all (like pokemon!) to see which was our favourite. They asked which one was winning so far...and then sent us some!

Companies like hearing about people who love their product...and not a simple "Dude you're awesome!" - though that might work - but they want to know why you love their product so much. Let them know and the free stuff will roll on in.

Seriously, I've only posted a couple of my stories. I have more. I like free stuff.

Finally, big name clothing and accessory companies love it when you tell them about companies selling knock-offs. I have heard stories of people getting real products when they expose fakes. Not saying you should go do that....but again honesty pays.

There you have it Free Stuff. Go and e-mail away....

Ok so I said I was going to talk again about coupons briefly. I've learnt a couple of things. 1) in Canada stacking coupons doesn't much work (well not often)
2) People will sign up to coupon websites with different address' and order coupons in bulk - this can get you banned from some sites if you are caught, and can get companies to stop issuing coupons. Risky and really not fair to everyone.

And lastly.....coupon swapping.

So Smart Canucks was a website I had listed that shows all the Canadian coupons out there. Well a little digging also shows that people around Canada will list what coupons they have, and what they want....and you swap. You can even swap Canadian Tire money for coupons.

They also have a section called Coupon Trains. Basically a number of people get together and list what coupons they want in order of importance. Then the first person sends coupons to the second...second to third and so on. Sounds like a pretty awesome concept.

I thought about getting into that stuff, but when I looked at my small amount of coupons and I thought about all the work to sort through what coupons I want (I've only just started using them yeesh), vrs what I have....and then you have post them, and search through other coupons for trade. It's just too much work for me. I dreamt about coupons last night, that is how I know I can't do all that. But that doesn't mean you can't so I am letting you know.

My Husband has asked that I not go coupon crazy even though we are trying to save money.

I did my first coupon outing yesterday to Shoppers. I made out well. I spent $20 and got a new razor, 2 deoderants for my Husband, shaving cream for me, 8 bars of soap (Olay), 2 body washes (Olay) and....oh actually I think that's it. Still made out really well.

Current tally: Last week final grocery numbers came in at $150. $110 less than typical. So far so good.

Saturday 9 April 2011

Kensington Market- AKA What a wonderful morning!

So as I mentioned, today was the day that I would travel to Kensington.

I left home before 11am thinking that everything would be open. I was surprised that when I got there, the stores had just been opening.

I wandered a bit, I forgot how much I love it there. I forgot my camera which I kicked myself in the ass over.

I checked out a couple of the fruit and veggie vendors trying to get an idea of the prices. There are two vendors actually on Kensington (the street), kiddie corner. I went to the one on the north east corner. In there I got some great looking mushrooms, 6 oranges, a bunch of asparagus, a bunch of carrots, onions, tomatoes, bananas....and I think that was it...I am probably forgetting something. In total it came to $12. WOW, that is a lot better than at my typical grocery store.

Aside from veggies and fruit, I needed nuts, cereal and honey. I checked out a nut place again on Kensington...it's actually more of a health food store. They had raw almonds for $5.99/lb and raw walnuts for 7.99/lb...and pumpkin seeds for 4.99/lb. Now having talked to other people about bulk nuts, these seemed like fair prices. I got a whole lot of each (we eat a lot of them), and went to cash out. My total was $30 and I just stood there thinking WTF? So I had him weight each item...all of them were slightly over a pound, but the pumpkin seeds were more so. So I thought I would dump some of them back. The guy at te store thought I was dumping them all back...I was too embarassed to say anything....so I dumped them all back.

In the end it was $20 for almonds and walnuts. Not bad. I didn't get milk, cereal or honey there, though in hindsight I should have gotten honey at the market. I was walking around trying to get pumpkin seeds now that I had none, but everywhere else the pumpkin seeds were $6.50-7.00/lb. Damn. So I know, you're thinking I went back and got them from the other place right....yeah. I left without them. I know, I know WTFMOFO!! But once I am embarassed, I got into shy mode. So I'll just have to go back another day.

At the local grocery store I got milk and cereal...like $15...for two items!!! For Cherrios and milk! I still don't even know how.....or what....or yeah. No honey because it was really expensive. Might have to go to St.Lawrence for honey, we will see.

So under $50 so far for groceries and the only real thing I know I am for sure missing is honey. Not so bad if I do say so myself.

Only downside is it is crowded, which I will get over, the items are heavy and stuff like bananas gett tossed and bruised while you walk around.

Maybe it's time to invest in a new old lady buggy? I would love one of those cloth buggies...but only if it were done in a cool pattern..maybe tattooesque. Or lightening bolts...or something cool...not plaid.

I guess I will make my next post about scoring free things....it's fun.

TTFN

Thursday 7 April 2011

Brief update for this week and then, lets talk Maple Syrup

Ok so...we were at $160 and holding....until last night. We ordered and I took a cab home to bring said dinner home while it was still warm. Tonight my Husband (who is sick) begged off cooking, and I've got work to do....so we ordered again. I don't think we've decided that ordering will be included in the grocery shopping or not.

I don't have the final tally, but I will post it later...but without the ordering I think we are up to $180. So less than usual.

Lets switch topics. Maple Syrup. If you are Canadian chances are this stuff flows through your veins. But it can be soooooo expensive.

Last month my Husband and I went on our very first trip. We went to an amazing resort in St. Lucia, which was all-inclusive, including tips. We didn't want to not tip anyone, so we thought of things we could bring from home to share. Maple Syrup was our first thought.

I went to all the local grocery stores and we were looking at $8-12 per bottle (250ml typically). This was a little more than we were thinking of spending per bottle, especially when we wanted to bring a few bottles with us.

I instantly thought of St. Lawrence Market. I was going to go on a Saturday before leaving, sure I would find some thing. And find some I did.

In the south market you can hardly turn a corner without seeing something maple related. Obviously, the south building is the one more tuned to tourists, so the costs are actually much greater than even the grocery stores. I was starting to feel really let down.

I made my way to the North building which is only open on the weekend. It's where the local farmers come to sell their wares. Outside of the market was a honey stall and beside that a maple syrup stall. The prices were cheaper than the South building, but still more than I wanted to spend for how many I wanted to bring.

Dejected, I went into the North building to have breakfast (great breakfast made with food gathered from the farmers, at a great price...I just can't remember it right now). I walked around buying veggies, and at the far end I came up to a table where they sold apples. On one side of the table though was a small selection of maple syrup! I went over not expecting to find anything different than I saw anywhere else. Man I was surprised. I was able to get 4 bottles at 250ml each for only $5.50. Half the price of anywhere I looked, plus I was supporting a local farmer. It was awesome. And everyone loved it at the resort.

Now when I want maple syurp, I know that the best place and the best price is at the North market on Saturdays.....that is unless you know somewhere better....

Monday 4 April 2011

Tales of No Frills, Beef and home cooking

It is April 4th and to date we have spent a total of $162. So so far this week we are $100 less than our usual budget. Now keep in mind...it's Monday. That and there are no pharmacy items in this total.

So Saturday morning my Husband and I go through alllllll the fliers we had. We had a squabble over shopping at No Frills and buying what we need/will use vs buying things just because they are on sale. Well...at least thats how I thought it was at the time...or that is how I was arguing it. My Husband's point was we need to adjust our eating habits to include items we don't typically eat, but are on sale. So me 0, Husband 1.

No Frills was an adventure. It was like Marty McFly came by in his Delorean and told me to hop in the back, we're flying to the 80's. Seriously. There was a guy who looked like he belonged in a hair band. Fully on mullet, handle bar mustache, leather jacket, tight jeans....scary thing is I don't think he was much older than me. I'm 30. So while I was alive in the 80's, and I do love me some 80's bands....you typically don't see people my age fully embracing the look as he was. It amused me.

The selection there surprised me. It was huge. Perhaps it was because I was there at 9am, but there weren't many people there so the selection was quite large. They had a lot of sales going on and in the one trip I spent $102 and bought more than I do at a typical store.

Great buys: 5 boneless, skinless chicken breasts for $11, I was spending $9 for 2 at Sobeys. Rib Roast for $10.72. More detail on the roast later. Eggs a dozen for $1.50.....I almost bought 3 of them...just cause the price was good, but we don't eat eggs that often. Bacon was also cheap at $2.99 a pack. With our new freezer I bought 2 packets of bacon...it's another item we don't eat too often.

Almonds were still pricey. I need to find somewhere I can get raw unsalted Almonds (Almonds are amazing for several reasons, but they assist in balancing horomones which is great for women...helps with PMS). On the topic of nuts, walnuts lower bad cholesterol and are great for omegas which is handy if you are allergic to fish (like my Husband is), and pumpkin is not only an afrodesiac for men, but pumpkin seeds are high in zinc which is good for men...and has other properties which are too TMI for here.

I was brought back to my childhood during checkout. They have the old school checkouts where the cashier puts your groceries to one side and you push a button and they come down the belt to you. Yeah my brother and I fought a lot over who got to push the button. I had a gleeful moment as I pushed it. I mocked my brother just for memory sake.

I carried my groceries out, Marty wasn't waiting for me when I left. Only a beat up cab with a bright and happy cabbie who was very talkative for a Saturday morning.

Overall I will shop there again. There are items I found they don't have that we like (bulk box of Fibre one bars for instance), so I will still need to look around.

The roast made a yummy meal that night with a dry rub. It was my Husband's first time cooking one and it was amazming. We had it with some mushrooms and bacon wrapped asparagus. Yum. The left over of the roast was put away until tonight. We have a home made stew with potatoes, carrots, celery, onion, and the left over beef and tin of tomatoes (which as my Husband reminds me I got for $0.88 a can...I should have bought more).  There will be enough stew left over for lunch even. So not bad.

On the way home today I stopped off at the Valu-mart to grab odds and ends that we needed (above mentioned Fibre One bars for instance). They had farmers market cherry pie on sale for $5.99, down $2. I thought it would make a nice treat to follow our stew, and would be a nice dessert for a couple of days. The big find was the ribs. OMG. They are on for $2.99 a pound! SHUT UP! I got two HUGE racks for only $8 each! Easily 4 meals per rack. I also got my Husband his favourite cheese...it's in this little red container...he calls it nippy *giggle*. Anyway, it's usually $9 but we got it for $4.99. Not something I would typically do, but we bought a lot of ground beef earlier and I know he likes it with his burgers.

So...with all this, plus the shopping I did just before this journey started we have 5 chicken breasts still, 6 burgers made up, 2-4 rib dinners (depending on how hungry), and 3 packs of extra lean ground beef (they were $3 each)...a possible sheppards pie in the future. Wow. That's a lot of meals worth and our freezer is still empty.

Ok so my Husband works some Saturdays. This Saturday is one of them. So I have time to go on a grocery adventure. Where to go though? I hear Kensington is great for veggies, spices and cheeses. We aren't HUGE on cheese, though I love a good goat cheese. But the trek might be worth it for some bulk spices and veggies. I could check their prices for nuts as well.

Where else should I plan to go? Not necessarily this Saturday, I want to pace out my adventures.

Until next time!

Friday 1 April 2011

Coupons!! More and more Coupons!

So as promised, here is what I have learnt about coupons so far:

They are easy to obtain, you can stack different ones for greater savings, and they now come to you!

So when I think about coupons, I think about grabbing the weekly newspaper, spreading it out ona table...grabbing some scizzors and planning my shopping around whatever coupons I can find.

I was so wrong. I have since found not one, but 6 websites dedicated to coupons for Canadians (which I will post the links to at the bottom of this post).

You pick and choose which coupons you want and they either mail them to you, or in some cases you can print them off. I have been going through them and "ordering" coupons only for items I would typically buy, and ones that are complimentary to each other.

For instance, you can get a coupon for save $1 when you buy two bounty, puffs, or charmin product. Then there are two other coupons, each for $.50 off of any one bounty or charmin or puffs product. So hypothetically you can save $2 by using the $1 and 2 $.50 coupons. Nice! If the item happens to be on sale, even better!

So I check these sites frequently, they do not update on a specific basis so you always need to come back to them...maybe make it something you do when you have your morning coffee and check your e-mail.

I do get a package of fliers delivered to my house every Friday. Historically we've been picking them up and tossing them into recycling. We've always bought the same items and either they are going to be on sale at the store we choose to shop at, or not. But now as we are trying to save money, we've brought the pack in.

Today's pack contains fliers for the following stores:
Metro
Valu-Mart
Price Chop
Fresh Co. (who? apparently related to Sobeys)
Sobeys
Super Store (Loblaws)
Loblaws
 and Food Basics

I had no idea I had all these options so close to home. Tonight (or if I am honest, tomorrow morning), my Husband and I are going to through these fliers, check the sales and create our grocery list. I think the general idea is that I will do most of tomorrows shopping at No Frills to check it out...but that could change when we see what is on sale. Also good to note: A lot of these sites have their fliers on line. If you have a No Fliers sign on your door and don't get them in the mail...check out the grocery store website. You enter in your postal code and it brings you to the flier for the store closest to you.

The freezer arrives between 12-6pm tomorrow, so I might wait on buying meats until it arrives and is set up.

Our goal is to not take out cash this month, shop for things we need using coupons and sales and see at the end of April if we make out better or not.

I already saved us some money yesterday by shopping some sales. Unfortunately, this meant buying generic coffee. I really want to keepbuying Fair Trade, but it's costly...so I might do a mix of both with Fair Trade coffee for the weekend only and generic for the weekdays. I'm not 100% sure how I feel about this yet though.

A fantastic goal would be if I could have coupons that compliment eachother for items already on sale...it's times like that, that you can actually manage to get some free items (not to be confused with my tips for free things, that's another post).

So here are 6 websites you should join and get coupons. I hate that at least one is specifically a "womans" site, as even men need to save money and some men are stay at home Dads and take over tht responsibility. Keep in mind, you can also check out sites for products you love...they will sometimes post coupons there too.

http://coupons.smartcanucks.ca/ this site is #1. They list coupons for all the other sites pretty much, and they also showcase printable coupons. There are forums here where people point to sales and there are trades for items...all around great site.

http://www.websaver.ca/en_ca/coupons/ small but good selection

http://www.save.ca/coupons great selection of grocery and pharmacy items

http://www.pgeverydaysolutions.ca/ amazing selection, seems to update frequently, has groceries, home, health...just so much. They also have samples...samples are always fun.

http://www.gocoupons.ca/ small selection, but premium items it seems, which is great when you want to slurge and save.

Lastly, http://www.divine.ca/en/ this isn't a coupon place per say, but they have a section caled Review Squad. Sign up, and they will let you know when new items are available to review. Pick what you want to review, they will send the item to you...just post a review within the time limit.

Next up: Review of my first shopping adventure.

Thursday 31 March 2011

And So It Begins...

One day while sitting at work I got an e-mail from my Husband. He read an article about how the average family of 4, in Toronto, spends roughly $500 a month on groceries. He figured that if a family of 4 could live on that much, we (only the 2 of us), should definitely be able to.

Up until now we have been spending about $260 a week on groceries, including pharmacy items. We also allocate $50 each a week for miscellaneous spending.

Every Saturday I make my way out of our East end house to one of 3 local grocery stores. I have a choice of Sobeys, Value Mart or Loblaws. We don't have a car so I take the TTC to and from each store, or if I am purchasing large items, I take a cab home. 

Each store has it's plus' and also has it negatives. Sobeys for instance doesn't carry V8...seriously...who doesn't carry V8! They also don't carry yogurt without aspartame or sweetener which is annyoing as my Husband can't take either.

Value Mart has a small selection of meats (very small), is very cramped, and is always busy. I used to shop there regularily, but found the costs not much different from Sobeys for what I wanted (they also don't carry our coffee of choice).

The Loblaws is great. It's large, has everything we typically buy and is on the way home. It's very expensive though, and the cab ride from there costs the most of all the locations.

We never used to spend so much on groceries. I remember when we first started living together, and my Husband was in school, we would spend maybe $100 a week and be fine. It seems that with our income increasing, so did our grocery bill.

I spoke with some co-workers and even my dentist's receptionist and they all said that they could see how one could easily spend $260 a week in the city. On the same page, my parents tell me that they spend $300 once a month and another $30 a week to make up their groceries, and they've lived in Toronto for over 30 years.

So my Husband and I have decided to change our ways and see if we can trim things.

We've already taken some steps. On Sears website they had a small freezer for sale that will fit into our small basement. It arrives on Saturday. This will allow us to buy meats in bulk, whereas previously we bought them as we used them.

I've been searching online for websites with coupons...I've never cut coupons before, but it's so easy now I don't know why I haven't been doing it so far (I will do a coupon post next).

I've been asking around about where to buy certain types of items, with properties that are important to me, at a cost less than what I am buying now (fair trade coffee for instance).

In a city like Toronto, where everything is at your fingertips, but cost of living is so high...it can take some searching for good deals, but I am willing to do that search.

This really will be about shopping in Toronto specifically. I don't have a car. I have a drivers license, but I only got it recently and only use it sparingly with my zipcar membership. Otherwise I am bound by my metropass and the TTC.

I plan on posting about where I have been shopping, what I have been saving, coupons I have used and their effect, and even possibly some tips about shopping cheaper on line (specific items). I will also speak of tips I have for scoring some free items (and not 5 finger discounting method).

I am open to suggestions of places to go, and things to see. I was born and raised in Toronto, but I still haven't seen it all.

Before I leave off, the only thing I am unsure of with this blog, is whether I should open it to ads. Right now my Husband and I think we should keep it add free. The purpose is not for me to make money, but to save money. So for now I think I will leave it off.

I hope this wasn't too babbly.

Next post: Coupons. Where to go them and how to use them.